I am

Upset. Mad. Disappointed. Disgusted. And feel a loss.

Ken went up to a 00g about 6 months ago. He decided to go with the horseshoe shaped thingy, which from day one got caught on everything (in his pant, not me). If anyone has ever had a body piercing you know how very painful such a thing can be, even though he has been pierced for over 6 years.

He said in passing that it was bothering him, and I suggested we order him a new banana bar, but he did not say much more and, well, he seems to have torn himself.

I just sat there when he told me. I had ordered him the jewelry this week and he had said NOTHING.

And now this.

Those that know me well, and everyone invited here do so, understand how very much I treasure the PA.

When my nipple rings started migrating out for the second time in four years I just had to let them go. They healed up mostly but there is still a small hole. And I had an 8g. You know how big a 00g is? It is NOT going to heal to a point he will ever be able to wear his piercing. It is fucked up.

I told him we needed to go see a doctor ASAP and get it sewn. At least it will look more normal and he can stand up to pee. But he wont and I am pissed.

Fuck it all.